She's Scared and He's
Including Sex Toys in your lovemaking
can be a great thing, however, it shouldn't be a surprise for your
partner. Effective communication and including you partner in
this new discovery should be essential.
There are three typical emotions that
one might experience when they are approached with the idea of using
sex toys during lovemaking.
1.) Excitement - Lets do it!
Great, decide together what toy you would both like to use and are
comfortable with and have fun!
2.) Fear - Will it hurt me, will I like
it? Sex Toys will not hurt you unless they are used incorrectly
or are used in ways not recommended by the manufacturer.
3.) Intimidation - Does he/she want the
toy more than me? If this answer is Yes, then the bigger
question you may need to ask yourself is why am I with this person or
are they using me?
All these emotions are normal, but with
effective communication and being sensitive to the needs of your
partner they will be easy to overcome. You want to approach the
use of Sex Toys with as much respect and love as the first time you
told your partner "I Love You". If you keep this in mind you'll
find that your partner will be receptive to discussing the use of Sex
Toys. In the end you partner may or may not be open to using Sex
Toys, but you don't want it to become an issue in your relationship.
If it is a major issue then it may be pointing to a larger issue of
"Are You Right for Each Other".
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