Sexual
fantasies are an intriguing subject...and not only men have them. The
truth is, women have them too, but they are limited to three general
types. Women can be just as sexual as a man if he learns what fantasy
buttons to push.
In order
to rouse a woman's fantasies, it takes a little work. First of all,
when you set out to stimulate your partner, you need to narrow your
focus down to the three specific types of fantasies: 1. Women with
women, 2. Women in Control, and 3. Sexually insatiable.
Too often,
when using fantasies, men include the things that turn themselves on
rather than what arouses a woman. Unfortunately, this is the quickest
way to turn a woman off. Women have specific requirements in their
fantasies, primarily, a slow building pace before and after the sex
act. As a matter of fact, the non-sexual touching is equally arousing
to a woman. When using fantasies with your partner, pay close
attention to the core elements in each of the types listed below and
include those details during fantasy talk.
Fantasy one: Women with Women.
This fantasy is alluring to women because its primary activities
consists of two aspects of sex that women crave: oral satisfaction and
tenderness. The key to this fantasy is slow seduction. It begins with
caressing and holding, builds to passionate, mutual orgasms, and
finishes the way it began-tenderly.
Fantasy Two: Women in Control.
The central theme in this fantasy is a woman who has the power to
maker her partner cum. This is the woman who plays the controlling
seductress whether it's through the role of dominatrix, exhibitionist,
or any number of controlling women roles that turn a man on. Her
arousal comes from watching a man lose his control to her.
Fantasy Three: Sexually Insatiable.
Unlike the other two types of fantasies, this one is more "manly"
because the focus is on the sex act. Common themes in these fantasies
are: engaging in forbidden love, oral sex, multiple orgasms, orgies,
public sex, and anything involving sexually adventurous actions.
The
easiest way to begin is to start out slowly. You might, for instance,
bring up the topic of sexual fantasies. All you need to say is, "Which
of the following three would turn you on more? At that time, mention
the fantasies above. The mere act of talking about it will arouse her.
So, if you
want to turn your partner on through sexual fantasies, all you have to
do is start talking about the subject. It may be a slow process, but
it's guaranteed to create an insatiable woman!
